and not I am not talking diet! Divorce!
Richard and I are splitting up - it is for the best and everyone will be much happier it was my choice to split but he agrees 100% - now there's one for the records us agreeing on something.
So have I decided this is a good enough reason to give up the dieting????
HELL NO!
I have decided it has given me even more reason to work even harder at losing weight - because what I figure is it will take me a year or 2 to lose all the weight that I need to lose and by that stage I will probably be ready to start thinking about dating again and if I am happy and confident in myself I am less likely to fall in with the wrong guy and I think losing weight will help my confidence.
I am shit scared about going it alone - dealing with the kids by myself and not having anyone to help with things - BUT I guess like hundreds of thousands of solo parents before me I will manage.
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Well I went through the same thing and it was the right decision for both of us. Then I got banded a year later and I am a happy, more self confident lady. Having kids makes it more difficult but it will make you stronger, wiser in the end! You go girl!!!
Wow thats a hard decision to make but I am glad you are not going to give up the dieting. This is something you need to do for you and noone else (well the kids also). Keep it up and don't forget there are others out there in the same boat as you. Be strong, you will get through all of this and be fine.
That is a huge decision to make but at east you are both in agreement. Sometimes I think you get stuck in a rut in your marriage and it brings you down and some of us eat to dull the shit-I know Im not as happy in my marriage as I used to be and I know its effecting my eating.. but we are working at it...good on you for sticking to the other big D!!
Wow good on you - Use it to power you on. Even in the sad times. You are beautiful
good decision and u go girl keep focus on the weight loss
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